Figured out how to use kde-open, ok now we're fine!

.bashrc

@@ -24,7 +24,7 @@ alias l1='ls -1'
 alias llm='lsl -r -t' # lsl+ sort by modified time (lastest at bottom)
 
 # nixos aliases that don't matter elsewhere:
-alias open=xdg-open
+alias open=kde-open5
 alias e='emacsclient'
 
 # awesomewm xdg fixes

.emacs.d/custom.el

@@ -11,8 +11,10 @@
  ;; If there is more than one, they won't work right.
  '(epg-gpg-program "/usr/local/bin/gpg")
  '(global-hl-line-mode t)
+ '(org-agenda-files
+   '("/home/josiah/dhd/org/big-bend-notes.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/documentation.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/finances.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/fitness.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/housing.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/hoyden.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/jlj-template.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/pagedout.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/pagedout2.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/personal.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/refile-beorg.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/someday.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/stjohns.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/webwiki.org" "/home/josiah/dhd/org/work.org"))
  '(package-selected-packages
-   '(lsp-pyright ido-vertical-mode dash-functional region-bindings-mode jinja2-mode dockerfile-mode sudo-edit modus-themes org-caldav json-mode pdf-tools org-special-block-extras neotree sr-speedbar lsp-python-ms fira-code-mode yasnippet org-pdftools phps-mode projectile webfeeder znc pinboard yaml-mode which-key web-mode virtualenvwrapper use-package twittering-mode try smex racer powershell poetry pipenv ox-reveal outline-magic org-pdfview org-bullets ob-restclient multiple-cursors magit lua-mode lsp-ui iedit helm flycheck-rust exec-path-from-shell eglot edit-indirect company-lsp ansible ace-window)))
+   '(python-black rust-mode company lsp-mode nix-mode markdown-mode flycheck s lsp-pyright ido-vertical-mode dash-functional region-bindings-mode jinja2-mode dockerfile-mode sudo-edit modus-themes org-caldav json-mode pdf-tools org-special-block-extras neotree sr-speedbar lsp-python-ms fira-code-mode yasnippet org-pdftools phps-mode projectile webfeeder znc pinboard yaml-mode which-key web-mode virtualenvwrapper use-package twittering-mode try smex racer powershell poetry pipenv ox-reveal outline-magic org-pdfview org-bullets ob-restclient multiple-cursors magit lua-mode lsp-ui iedit helm flycheck-rust exec-path-from-shell eglot edit-indirect company-lsp ansible ace-window)))
  '(znc-servers
    `(("bouncer.awful.club" 5000 t
       ((freenode "blindidiotgod/freenode" ,znc-password)